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Why Do Children with Autism Avoid Eye Contact?

Rebecca Hollister

PhD, BCBA-D

Seventeen years in ABA has shaped Rebecca's philosophy: good therapy isn't just about data — it's about dignity.

Many children with autism avoid eye contact, not out of rudeness, but because it can feel overwhelming, uncomfortable, or even painful. Eye contact involves processing facial expressions, social cues, and emotional signals all at once. For a child with autism, this level of sensory and social input may be difficult to manage.

Avoiding eye contact can also be a way to reduce anxiety or stay focused. Some children look away to concentrate better on what’s being said, while others may not realize eye contact is a common social expectation. It’s important to understand that this behavior doesn’t mean a lack of interest or connection, it’s simply how their brain processes interactions differently.


Rather than forcing eye contact, therapy can gently build social skills in a way that respects the child’s comfort and communication style.


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SOURCES:


https://www.healthline.com/health/autism/autistic-eye-contact


https://www.autismspeaks.org/expert-opinion/autism-eye-contact


https://www.psychiatrist.com/news/why-people-with-autism-have-trouble-making-eye-contact/


https://reframingautism.org.au/understanding-autistic-differences-in-eye-contact/


https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0960982222007758

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