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What Are the 6 Stages of Autism Meltdown? How to Support

Autism meltdowns can feel overwhelming for everyone involved, but understanding the six stages can make a real difference. Here’s a direct look at what are the 6 stages of autism meltdown, so you can spot the signs early and support your loved one effectively.


The 6 Stages of Autism Meltdown

1. Calm: The individual appears relaxed and regulated. This is the baseline before any triggers appear.


2. Triggers: Something in the environment—like loud noises, bright lights, or a sudden change—causes discomfort or stress.


3. Agitation: You might see signs like restlessness, pacing, or fidgeting. This is the warning phase; the person is becoming overwhelmed.


4. Meltdown: This is the peak. The individual loses control, which may look like yelling, crying, or shutting down. It’s not a tantrum; it’s an involuntary response to overload.


5. Re-Grouping: After the meltdown, the person needs space and time to recover. They may be quiet or withdrawn as they regain self-control.



6. Starting Over: Finally, the individual gradually returns to their routine and normal activities, ready to re-engage.

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