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How to Break the Cycle of Self-Hitting in Autistic Children

If your child is hitting themselves, it can be distressing for both you and them. It's important to understand that this behavior is often a sign of frustration, stress, or difficulty expressing emotions.



With the right approach, you can help them cope in healthier ways and reduce this behavior over time.


Understand the Root Cause

Children might hit themselves for a variety of reasons, including sensory overload, feeling overwhelmed, or struggling with communication. Identifying what triggers the behavior can help in finding effective solutions.


Offer Emotional Support

Create a safe environment where your child feels comfortable expressing their emotions. Often, self-hitting is a response to feeling misunderstood or unable to express frustration. Help them identify their emotions and offer soothing comfort when needed.


Teach Alternative Coping Mechanisms

Instead of hitting themselves, encourage your child to use words or simple gestures to communicate. You can also introduce activities like squeezing a stress ball or engaging in deep breathing exercises to help calm down.


Seek Professional Help

If your child’s self-hitting continues or worsens, it may be time to seek professional support. Behavioral therapy, like ABA therapy, can help your child learn new ways to manage their emotions and improve their overall behavior.


At Steady Strides ABA, we specialize in helping children through various behavioral challenges, including self-injurious behavior. With our services in Texas and New Mexico, we provide:



Our compassionate therapists work closely with families to create personalized strategies to improve your child’s behavior. Don’t hesitate to reach out to us for support!


FAQs


  • What is ABA therapy?

    ABA therapy is a scientifically proven approach that helps children learn new skills, reduce problem behaviors, and improve overall functioning by using structured techniques.


  • How can I prevent my child from hitting themselves at home?

    Start by identifying triggers, providing emotional support, and offering calming activities. Consistent positive reinforcement and alternative coping strategies can also help.


  • Is self-injurious behavior common in children with autism?

    Yes, self-injurious behavior can sometimes be a challenge for children with autism. It’s important to address these behaviors early and seek professional help, such as ABA therapy.


Sources:



  • https://spedsupport.tea.texas.gov/resource-library/autism-toolkit/breathing-techniques-calm
  • https://autism.org/causes-and-interventions-for-self-injury-in-autism/
  • https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour/self-injurious-behaviour/all-audiences
  • https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3990505/
  • https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2014-52728-010


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