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Essential Do's and Don'ts for Autism Support

Rebecca Hollister

PhD, BCBA-D

Seventeen years in ABA has shaped Rebecca's philosophy: good therapy isn't just about data — it's about dignity.

What are the do's and don'ts of autism? Do's include using clear language, positive reinforcement, and patience. Don'ts involve overwhelming with questions or using idioms.


What Are the Do's and Don'ts of Autism?

Studies show positive interactions improve social skills in 75% of autistic children.​


Do's

  • Use simple, literal language.​
  • Give time to process information.​
  • Praise good behavior often.​
  • Follow child's interests.​


Don'ts

  • Avoid idioms or sarcasm.​
  • Don't rush or overload with questions.​
  • Skip forcing eye contact.​
  • Never punish typical autistic traits.​


These practices build trust and communication.


At Steady Strides ABA in Texas and New Mexico, we train families in these evidence-based strategies. Book your free assessment now.


FAQs

  • Should you force eye contact?

    No, it can cause distress.

  • How to communicate best?

    Use clear, simple words.

  • Is positive reinforcement key?

    Yes, it boosts skills.

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